A: A
lot depends on the kind of stress and how you handle it. A certain
amount of optimum stimulation is necessary for peak performance. The
evidence suggests that stressful situations that are challenging but
not overwhelming may actually contribute to better physical and psychological
health.
University of Nebraska psychologist Richard A. Dienstbier uses the
term "toughening" to describe what happens when challenging
situations require active coping and problem solving. Animals and
humans who are stressed, but learn to adaptively work their way out
of the problem, show a distinct psychobiological pattern.
Overwhelming stress overtaxes the nervous system and leads to a variety
of maladaptive effects, including high blood pressure, sleep disorders,
gastrointestinal problems, chronic anxiety, or depression.
However, individuals who have learned to deal effectively with such
emergencies - that is, developed good coping and mastery skills -
show a more efficient and adaptive nervous system response that only
lasts for the specific period of stress, and returns promptly to normal
baseline when the crisis is over.
It's been shown that as an individual learns to cope with challenges
in an adaptive way, a positive spiral develops: More effective coping
leads to a smoother psychobiological stress response; the more this
happens, the more the person learns to have faith in his or her own
coping abilities - and so the stress response becomes even more adaptive
and less disruptive.
This is what the "toughening"
response is all about. Tough people - by virtue of innate gift or
deliberate training - are able to cope adaptively with adverse situations
and are therefore less likely to succumb to stress-related illnesses.
How do you toughen up? Unfortunately, many so-called "stress-management"
programs rely mainly on relaxation or other arousal-reduction techniques
- as if dealing with stress amounted to floating on a cloud. But
these mellowing-out techniques and therapies may actually work against
developing true adaptive toughness. By portraying stress as something
to be reduced or avoided at all costs, these approaches inhibit
the learning of adaptive coping skills to deal with life's challenges.
Especially in law enforcement and emergency services, there are
times when it's important to increase arousal, alertness, and attention
- to pump up the physical and emotional adrenalin to the point where
it helps you scan the environment and focus on the immediate task
at hand. You need that psychological pump to zero in on life-and-death
situations and make the most effective response in a split second.
Only when the emergency has passed, do you need to be able to ratchet
down the arousal level so that a sustained stress response doesn't
produce unhealthy consequences.
In other words, it's the flexibility of the nervous system's stress-response
system that enables an officer to muster the appropriate level of
arousal to handle a difficult and dangerous task, and then relax
and decompress. Accordingly, a truly useful stress management program
should teach officers how to approach potential obstacles in an
assertive, yet flexible way, so that the "mental toughness
muscle" is progressively exercised and thereby becomes better
able to handle more and more complex challenges. Remember: RESILIENCE,
NOT RESISTANCE!
Thus, the truly "tough" person - in the healthiest sense
of the word - is not the man or woman who avoids all stress, but
the one who knows how to deal with different levels of stress as
they occur, on the job or anywhere.
Laurence Miller, PhD is a clinical,
forensic, and consulting psychologist in Boca Raton, Florida, and
police psychologist for the West Palm Beach Police Department. Dr.
Miller can be reached at (561) 392-8881, or online at:
www.practicalpsych.com
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